on saturday 26/4, i received a call from my bro, telling me that grandma was admitted in hospital too... oh no, not a bad news again. wat the !#$!$@.... y all these bad things happen at the same time? and i couldn't even get back to c them... 2 more papers to go.... faster finish pls.... it was the 2nd time that we had 2 family members admitted at the same time. my bro told me tat grandma fell down on tue and she refused to go hospital for check up and she couldn't get down from bed for few days after that. and finally my cousin manage to convince her to go for check up. she had a little crack over her pelvis there if not mistaken, if possible, the doctor said tat it need to be operated. but he said tat my grandma is quite and there may be certain risks there if operate and summore my grandma has high-blood pressure and diabetic... so he said further observation is required for few days n whether to operate will be decide then... my dad was staying in adventist and my grandma was staying in tanjong... so my dad took off the drip and get permission from doctor and walked over to tanjong to visit grandma. it's ald few days my grandma din c my dad as we usually will go grandma's hse after our dinner everyday. my aunt told her that my dad's boss came over to pg so my dad was bz bringing them here n there... my grandma also couldn't notice that my dad was hospitalized tat time cos my dad was trying to hide his hand behind all the time....

on 2 May, i finally finished my exam and rush back pg without clear my stuff as i hv to move out from tar villa on mid of May upon expiry of my contract. all my plans with fren has to be canceled, wat sing k wat badminton all have to be canceled. it's time to go home. i hvn't visit my dad when he was hospitalized and now he was  finally discharged on 1 May. the doctor has also decide the date for operation as my grandma has agreed to operate. cos according to the doctor, if she doesn't want to operate, she has to lay on the bed at least few weeks and it takes longer time to recover. and the doctor also said that, for old ppl usually a lot of  illness will come to them if they din get up to move in 2 weeks time. so in these few weeks, all my family members are quite busy here n there. every time must hv at least 1 ppl stay over there to take care of my grandma. all my aunts include my mom also hv to take turns to 'duty' there... a week after the operation, my grandma finally was discharge. and now my grandma still couldn't walk. all my aunts as usual takes turn to take care of her but this is diff cos it's at home, it's easier cos no need to travel here n there anymore, and my grandma can watch tv in living room, get some fresh air in the garden with the wheelchair.

And now, it's a month d... everyone at home has lost their weight, especially my aunts n dad. they r just like entering a keep fit program. getting thinner and thinner....  and me? getting fatter and fatter... not much can help, sometimes just help them to look after my little niece n nephew... hope everything will be fine soon...

22 April - 2 May : Final Exam
On 22/4, finally settled the 1st paper ie, Moral... on that nite, my best fren hoong sms me. it make me stoned n shock for awhile. she asked me how's my dad as her mom told her that my dad may need to go for an operation... i just know tat my dad was not feeling well few days b4 when i back to pg, but never heard bout operation from my dad. i was doubt tat time, is it that my fren msg to wrong ppl? or my parents din plan to tell me as i was having exam till May? later on i gave a call to my fren n confirm it... oh gosh... that msg is for me, and she asked me my dad's current condition, how is he? how's the operation? when can he be discharged? where to visit my dad when she back to pg on weekends? i really dunno how to answer her and i also don wan her to know tat i still dunno all bout tat cos i worried tat later on she also will be same like my parents, try to avoid telling me bout tat so tat i can concentrate on my exam. but it's too late, this will make me think more if i din get update on it... i wan her to get the latest news from her mom n so she can update me anytime if my parents still insist for not telling me... after that, i gave a call to my bro n ask him, but he was also like me, he din even know anything, as he was working in kulim tat time.

i was waiting for my dad's call tat nite, n he din call me up. n finally, mom gave me a call. she was working when she called me. i asked her where is papa and she said dunno, y din u call papa n ask him... i can feel tat smth wrong was there... but she still dint tell me anything.... then she gave me a call again after a few min. maybe my bro gave her a call n she knows that i also knew it d... she ask me whether i had call my dad. i told her nope cos i was outside, it's quite noisy there. so she ask me y i look for my dad, is there anything or not... i told her: how i know? u guy dint wan to tell me anything? then she laughed and finally tell me what had happened. she told me tat my dad has an infection in his liver and it cant be operate as its very risky bcos the infected area is very close to his artery. so he doctor gave my dad antibiotic and asked my dad to stay there a week for observation, and it's the only way to cure that infection. she asked me not to worry anything and just concentrate on my exam...

the next day, i finally called my dad. the 1st sentence that i said: hey pa, stay at 5 stars hotel also din tell me ah... he laughed.... and he ask me how did i get to know bout this, n i told him that i hv a lot of spy over pg n ask him don ever try to hide anything from me... hehe... he guess n guess n finally he know who is that cos hoong is our 1st class reporter in fairy heights, her aerial is still very efficient even though she ald married to ipoh. we used to call her FM801 cos she always brings the latest news for us... after chit chat awhile with my dad and know his latest condition i just can feel a bit released... at least it's better than dunno anything. as it was exam week so i cant go back to visit him, we just can keep contact thru phone call at least once or twice everyday as i still need to go library to study...